So my running buddy Danica told me on Sunday that she would not be available to run again until Wednesday morning. Scheduling problems.
Wanting to keep the momentum going, I thought I’d be good for Wednesday morning, but then I remembered that on Tuesday night I was playing in a poker tournament at my friend Jimmy’s house with 28 other guys. The game usually runs long and I knew I would not be up for a 6:00 run the next morning.
So I texted Danica and suggested a Wednesday night run.I was startled by her response.
To this suggestion, she was even more emphatic - a hard no.
So I did not run on Wednesday, but did get out on Thursday morning. As we walked to the starting point at the entrance to the neighborhood, I teased her about her animus against night time exercise.
“I think I’ve only run once or twice at night in all these years,” she said. “When I get home, I don’t leave the house. We just watch TV or read.”
We debated the merits of exercising after dark, and she emphasized, “That’s the only time I get to spend with my husband.”
I understood that. Now that my kids are out of the house and I’m retired, the only time I see Lisa is when she gets home from work, and I feel bad when I’m out playing cards, leaving her home alone all night. (In my defense, I made $535 in Tuesday night’s tournament. I should buy her some flowers.)
So, knowing I was beat, I made a strategic retreat in this discussion and we talked the rest of the run about television shows worth watching. Our consensus picks: The Righteous Gemstones, Schitt’s Creek, and The Good Place.
Another loop - and we’ll try again tomorrow!
P.S. Note that the second mile was a little bit faster than Sunday’s second mile. Progress!


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